Bought 2 servers on the advice of Andy, thank you
One for just my large football forum and the other for 10 smallish WordPress sites, saving money at the same time, so far it has been amazingly brilliant support, most I think I have waited was 16mins, that's what we need and want from a host, and they are very accommodating and will give you all kinds of advice.
Stupidly never read this post properly and named the servers with domain names I did not own, haha, schoolboy error, every day a school day.
And since I had 2 nameservers with 2 servers, make sure you do not do as I did and put the wrong details into your registrar LOL.
I am blaming adding 6 domains the days before lol and not remembering what nameserver I was adding lol.
Was wondering why the site was not getting found, was a sweaty brow moment, haha, then I twigged and checked and corrected, and on she came leaping like a salmon out a Scottish river